I will be following closely! I think it's totally fair that you want your friends to be equally good at planning, etc. If it's important to you, it's important. I'd be clear about that as you get closer to someone. Communicating our needs is such a big part of really connecting. Perhaps the person will not have thought about it before but they will agree it's not right for you to do all the planning and they'll be glad you made them aware. Just my two cents!
I agree! I need to be more vocal about how helpful it would be to NOT be the one always planning. And how it would make our friendship more balanced. As always, thank you for your insight!
I will be following closely! I think it's totally fair that you want your friends to be equally good at planning, etc. If it's important to you, it's important. I'd be clear about that as you get closer to someone. Communicating our needs is such a big part of really connecting. Perhaps the person will not have thought about it before but they will agree it's not right for you to do all the planning and they'll be glad you made them aware. Just my two cents!
I agree! I need to be more vocal about how helpful it would be to NOT be the one always planning. And how it would make our friendship more balanced. As always, thank you for your insight!